Moekolohe & Pili
Loaʻa nā hopena ʻino i kāu keiki ma mua o kou manaʻo akā loaʻa iā mākou nā ala e hoʻoponopono ai
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ʻOi aku ka makua ma mua o ka hoʻonaʻauao; ʻae nā kānaka a pau. ʻIke mākou i nā mākua e hana maikaʻi ana e hoʻopololei i ko lākou manaʻo maikaʻi iā mākou.
Ma kēia hoʻāʻo ʻana, i kekahi manawa nalo paha nā mākua i nā mea he nui ʻole a kūpono ʻole e hana e like me ko mākou ʻike a i ʻole nā loina o ke kaiāulu.
A kapa ʻia ka makua maʻamau ma ke ʻano he makua maikaʻi ʻole. Eia nō naʻe, he manaʻo wale nō paha ka makua maikaʻi ʻole i nā keiki a i ʻole nā mea ʻē aʻe i ke kaiāulu, a i ʻole ʻae ʻia nā hōʻailona o ka makua ʻino?
E kūkākūkā kākou i kēia i kēia lā. No ka mea, inā he ʻano ʻino ko ka nursery, ʻaʻole e ulu ka hua i kahi lāʻau hua malu. (Ka makua ino)
He aha ka makua maikaʻi ʻole?
ʻO ka makua maikaʻi ʻole kahi ʻano hana a nā mākua i nalowale i ko lākou kūʻokoʻa, koho, makemake i ke aloha, a i ʻole nā hana ʻē aʻe e hoʻopau ai i ko lākou wā e hiki mai ana, e komo pū ana me ka hana ʻino i kā lākou mau keiki.
Nā hōʻailona o ka makua ʻino (Good Parenting vs. Bad Parenting)
He aha ka makua ʻona?
Pehea ʻoe e hana ai me ka makuahine ʻona?
He mea paʻakikī ke hōʻuluʻulu i nā ʻano a pau i hiki ke kapa ʻia he hōʻailona o ka mālama makua ʻino. ʻAʻole paʻa loa nā hōʻailona, kūpono i nā moʻomeheu āpau.
Akā naʻe, ua hoʻāʻo mākou e ʻike i kekahi mau hōʻailona o ka mālama makua maikaʻi ʻole i hiki ke hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻia i loko o kekahi kaiāulu a moʻomeheu paha. ʻAʻole paʻa ka papa inoa, akā uhi nō naʻe i ka hapa nui. (Ka makua ino)
1. Loaʻa i ka hewa liʻiliʻi ka hopena koʻikoʻi
Ua hoʻokahe kāu keiki i ka wai ma ka papahele a hoʻomaka ʻoe i ka huʻa ma kona waha, a ʻo ka mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, ʻaʻole ia ka manawa mua āu i hana ai i kēia. I kēlā me kēia manawa e hana hewa kāu keiki, e ʻāhewa ʻoe iā ia. (Ka makua ino)
2. ʻO ka hoʻopaʻi kino ka hana i kēlā me kēia lā
Inā ua hala ka hewa o kāu keiki a ʻaʻole paha, ua maʻa ʻoe i ka hahau ʻana i kāu keiki. He mea maʻamau kēia ʻano i waena o nā mākua i hoʻonaʻauao ʻole ʻia no ka mea manaʻo lākou pono lākou e mālama i kā lākou mau keiki e like me ka hana a ko lākou mau mākua iā lākou. (Ka makua ino)
3. Huhu kuhi hewa ʻole
Ua hilahila ka makua kāne i kona haku ma ke keʻena no ka hiki ʻole ke hoʻopau i ka papahana, a i kona hoʻi ʻana mai i ka hale, kuʻi ʻo ia a uē paha i kāna mau keiki no ka hana āna i mālama ʻole ai i ka wā ma mua. (Ka makua ino)
4. Hoʻohālikelike i kāu mau keiki me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe
ʻAʻole like nā kānaka ʻelua ma kēia ao. Ke hana hewa nei ʻoe ma ke ʻano he makua ke hoʻohewa mau ʻoe i kāu keiki no ka loaʻa ʻana o nā māka haʻahaʻa ma mua o kāna mau hoa papa, a i ʻole ʻoe i kēlā me kēia lā ua hoʻomaka ke keiki a kou hoalauna i ka hana a ua palaualelo kāu keiki ma ka home. (Ka makua ino)
5. ʻAʻole hōʻike i ke aloha
Pono kēlā me kēia keiki i ke aloha a me ke aloha o ko lākou mau mākua ʻaʻole wale ma ka ʻōlelo, akā ma o ka hōʻike ʻana i ka manaʻo.
Ke hoʻi ʻoe i ka home i ka pō a ʻaʻole ʻoe e pūliki, honi, a ʻakaʻaka paha i kāu keiki, hana ʻoe i kahi kaawale ma waena o ʻoe a me kāu mau keiki. A i ka wā e hoʻomohala ʻia ai kēia āpau, ʻaʻole hiki ke pani ʻia i ka wā e hiki mai ana. (Ka makua ino)
6. Pili ino me kou hoa ola
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoluʻolu ʻoe me kāu hoa kāne, e pau ke aloha, ke aloha, ka mālama a me nā ʻano kūpono.
Nui nā manawa i maikaʻi loa ka makuahine me kāna mau keiki akā hoʻopaʻapaʻa mau me kāna kāne. ʻO ka hopena, ʻaʻole haʻi nā keiki i ko lākou mau pilikia me kekahi o lākou no ka makaʻu ʻaʻole e hoʻopilikia i waena o ko lākou mau mākua.
7. ʻAʻole ʻoe mālama i nā pilikia o nā keiki
Ua kiʻi ʻia ʻoe i ka Halawai Mākua Kumu (PTM), akā ke hana nei ʻoe i ke kumu hoʻohenehene o ka hana nui, e like me ka wā ma mua.
Ua kōkua mau nā PTM e ʻike i nā pilikia o kāu keiki, inā ʻaʻole hiki.
A i ʻole kāu keiki i haʻi iā ʻoe ua hoʻomāinoino ʻia ʻo ia ma ke kula, akā hoʻohiki wahaheʻe ʻoe e kāhea i kāu kumu kula, e like me ka mea maʻamau, ʻaʻole ʻoe. (Ka makua ino)
8. ʻAʻohe mahalo
Ua hoʻi mai kāu keiki mai ke kula i kekahi lā a lele ʻo ia me ka hauʻoli ʻo ia ke poʻo o ka papa a kūʻai paha i kekahi mea mai kāna loaʻa hapa manawa a hauʻoli nui e hōʻike iā ʻoe.
Akā, ʻo ka mea kupanaha iā ia, ʻaʻole ʻoe i hōʻike i nā hōʻailona o ka hauʻoli. Akā, ua hoʻolohe ʻoe a i ka manawa aʻe ua hoʻi hou i ka nānā ʻana i ka pāʻani pôpeku. (Ka makua ino)
9. Helikopa makua
He aha ka makua helicopter a no ke aha ka hewa?
Pono ka noʻonoʻo kanaka e hana a hoʻomaʻamaʻa e like me nā ʻāpana ʻē aʻe o ke kino, no ka mea hiki ke hānai pono ʻia.
I ka wā ʻōpiopio, pono nā mākua i ke aloha a me ka launa pū ʻana e kōkua i kā lākou mau keiki e hoʻomaopopo i nā mea a hoʻoponopono i nā pilikia.
Akā ke hele ka mālama ma mua o nā pono, lilo ia i mea pōʻino.
Ke komo ʻoe a hoʻoponopono i kēlā me kēia pilikia e kū nei kāu mau keiki, ke hoʻohaʻahaʻa maoli nei ʻoe i kā lākou hiki ke hoʻoholo.
Me kēia ʻano, emi iho ko lākou pono ponoʻī a paʻa ka makaʻu iā lākou i ka wā e hoʻoholo ai lākou.
10. Ua hōʻino ʻoe i kāu keiki ma mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe
ʻAʻole nui ka hopena o ka pāpā ʻana i kāu keiki ma mua o kona mau kaikaina.
Akā, ke hōʻino ʻoe iā lākou i mua o nā hoaaloha, ʻohana, a i ʻole nā malihini, nui ka hana.
Hana pinepine nā mākua i kēia ma lalo o ka manaʻo no ka poʻe ʻelemakule wale nō ka manaʻo ponoʻī, he hewa ia.
11. Hoʻonoho i nā kumu hoʻohālike maikaʻi ʻole
ʻO ka pāpā ʻana i kāu mau keiki mai ka puhi paka ʻana i ka wā e puhi ana ʻoe he mea ia e apo maoli ai lākou, ʻoiai inā ʻaʻole ʻoe i ʻae i kekahi mau manawa.
Pēlā nō, ʻoiai ke kāohi nei i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe mai ka ʻimi ʻana i ka hoʻonaʻauao kiʻekiʻe i mua o kāu keiki, ʻo ka koi ʻana iā ia e kiʻi i nā māka maikaʻi ʻaʻole pono.
12. Hoʻokumu i kahi Kaiapuni ʻino
Minamina nui kekahi mau mākua i ko lākou hala. ʻAʻole lākou i ʻike e pau ana ka manaʻolana o kā lākou mau keiki e lohe nei i ka wā e hiki mai ana ke hoʻoikaika nui nei kā lākou kula e kūkulu.
ʻO ka hapa nui o ka manawa, no nā hewa a nā mākua i hana ai i ka wā ma mua a i ʻole ka pōʻino i loaʻa iā lākou i kēia manawa.
13. Mālama i kāu mau keiki mai nā poʻe ʻē aʻe
ʻO ka lawe ʻana i kāu mau keiki mai nā keiki ʻē aʻe no ka makaʻu e hoʻopōʻino i kāu mau keiki he hana ʻino ʻē aʻe hiki iā ʻoe ke hana ma ke ʻano he makua.
No ka laʻana, ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kāu keiki e hui pū me kāna mau hoaaloha, a i ʻole ʻoe e hoʻonāwaliwali i ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā palena manawa, me ka ʻike ʻole ʻo ia ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana e lilo ia i mea hoʻokūkū ʻole i ko lākou ola ʻoihana.
14. Lepili ʻoe i kāu mau keiki me nā inoa hoʻohaʻahaʻa
ʻO ka mea ʻino loa āu e hana ai ma ke ʻano he makua, ʻo ia ka inoa o kāu mau keiki ma mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ke kāhea ʻoe i nā inoa, ʻike ʻoe i ka hemahema i ʻole e hōʻike ʻia.
ʻAno:
Kāhea iā ia ʻo Fat, Loser, etc. e kelepona. ʻOi aku ka koʻikoʻi o ka hopena o ke kāhea inoa ʻana ma mua o kou manaʻo. ʻO ka mea ʻino loa ʻo ke kipi ke ikaika ʻoe e hana pēlā.
15. ʻAʻole ʻoe e hoʻolimalima manawa me kāu mau keiki
E ʻōlelo mākou he makua ʻaʻole ʻoe e hana i kekahi o nā mea hewa i hōʻike ʻia ma luna. Akā naʻe, ʻaʻole hiki ke kapa ʻia ʻoe he makua maikaʻi inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e hoʻolimalima manawa me kāu mau keiki.
He aha ka manawa maikaʻi? ʻO ka hui pū ʻana ma nā papa ʻaina a i ʻole ka hoʻokuʻu ʻana iā lākou i ke kula ʻaʻole i helu ʻia he hoʻopau manawa.
Akā, e pāʻani pū me ia, e haʻi i nā moʻolelo o ka wā kahiko i ka puliki ʻana iā ia, a i ʻole e lilo ʻoe i kamaliʻi e pāʻani pū me ia.
Eia kekahi, ʻakaʻaka ke ʻakaʻaka, hele pinepine i ka pīniki, kūkākūkā i ka papahana i ko lākou wā ʻelemakule, a pēlā aku. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe, he hōʻailona nīnau koʻikoʻi kāu i kāu hana makua.
16. Hoʻoikaika ʻoe i nā mea i ka makemake a i ʻole ka hiki o kāu mau keiki
Makemake kāu keiki e koho i nā ʻepekema lapaʻau, akā ma ke ʻano he ʻenekini Kivila makemake ʻoe iā ia e koho i ka ʻenekinia Civil ma ke ʻano he papahana.
A i ʻole, nāwaliwali loa kāu keiki i ka Matematika akā ke hoʻomākaukau nei ʻoe iā ia no ka hoʻokūkū Mathematics e hiki mai ana.
ʻAʻole hiki i kēia mau mea ke mākaukau i kāu keiki, akā e ʻimi ʻo ia i kahi manawa e pakele ai i kāu kaomi.
17. Aloha ʻoe (Permissive Parenting)
He aha ka mea maikaʻi ʻole o ka mālama ʻana i nā mākua?
Inā he mea hoʻoikaika ʻoe no nā koi maikaʻi ʻole o kāu mau keiki, ʻaʻole ʻoe he makua maikaʻi.
No ka mea, ke hoʻokuʻu ʻoe i kāu mau keiki e hana i ka mea pupule a lākou e makemake ai e hana, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hāʻawi iā lākou i ke kūʻokoʻa; akā, ke pāʻani nei ʻoe me ko lākou wā e hiki mai ana.
Me he mea lā e makemake ana kāu keiki e puhi i ka weuweu, a i ʻole e komo i kahi kūʻē kūʻē aupuni pupule, a i ʻole koi i ka meaʻai e hōʻino ai i ko lākou olakino, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e pāpā.
ʻO kekahi laʻana, aia ʻoe i loko o kahi hale kūʻai no ke kūʻai ʻana a ke ʻakaʻaka nei kāu keiki ʻino i ka papahele, akā ʻaʻole ʻoe e nānā.
18. ʻAʻole e uku nui i kāu mau keiki
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i kahi e hele ai kāu keiki, i kāna mea e ʻai ai, i ka poʻe me ia, ua hewa ʻoe.
ʻOiai ua ʻike ʻoe he paʻakikī kāu keiki, ʻae pinepine ʻoe iā ia e ʻai i ka meaʻai wikiwiki. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kapa iā ia he kūʻokoʻa, akā he mea luku. ʻO ia mau keiki e komo i kahi hui ʻino, kahi e haʻalele loa ai lākou ma hope o kā lākou mau hoa papa a i ʻole nā keiki o nā makahiki like.
mea leʻaleʻa
Aia kekahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni makua maikaʻi ʻole i kapa ʻia ʻo Bad Parents e pili ana i nā mākua i makaʻu nui i ka pāʻani pōpeku a kā lākou mau keiki kula a hāʻawi pū i nā lokomaikaʻi i ke kumu e hāʻawi i kā lākou mau keiki i ka nānā kūikawā. (ʻino makua olohelohe)
He aha nā hopena o nā mākua maikaʻi ʻole? (Ka hopena o ka makua ino)
Ke hoʻokō ʻole ʻoe i kāu kuleana ma ke ʻano he makua kuleana a maikaʻi paha, pilikia kāu keiki mai ia mea a pilikia nui i kekahi manawa.
E nānā kākou i ka hopena o ka hana makua i ke keiki.
1. E lilo ana kāu mau keiki i ke kaumaha
Wahi a CDC USA, 4.5 miliona mau keiki i ʻike ʻia me nā pilikia pili; Ma 2019, 4.4 miliona mau kānaka i ʻike i ka hopohopo a me 1.9 miliona i loaʻa i ke kaumaha.
Hoʻokahiʻike i hoʻoholo pili loa kekahi mau ana no ka makua me ke kaumaha o ka wa kamalii.
ʻO ka hōʻino mau ʻana a i ʻole ka launa ʻole ʻana me kāu mau keiki e hoʻohaʻahaʻa koke iā lākou. E keakea nui ana ke kaumaha i ko lakou hiki ke hana pono. E ʻike lākou i ka makaʻu o ka maopopo ʻole no kekahi mea hou.
I kekahi manawa, hiki i ke kaumaha ke hele lōʻihi loa, e hoʻoulu ai i ka hiamoe, ka luhi a me ka haʻahaʻa o ka ikehu, ka uē ʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi a i ʻole ka manaʻo e pepehi i ke ola a i ʻole ka make. (ʻino makua olohelohe)
2. Hana Kipi
ʻO ka ʻoi aku o kou hoʻopaʻa ʻana i nā manaʻo o kāu keiki a i ʻole ka ʻoi aku o kou huhū iā ia, ʻoi aku ka nui o kona lilo ʻana i kipi. Hōʻike ʻia ke kipi i loko ma kekahi o kēia mau ʻano:
- huna i na mea mai na makua a i ole
- makemake mehameha a i ʻole
- loli koke ke ʻano a i ʻole
- ʻOiai makemake i nā mea like i ka wā ma mua, makemake ʻole i nā koho a nā mākua etc.
3. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻokō i nā pilikia (Poor Performance)
ʻO kekahi hopena koʻikoʻi o ka mālama makua maikaʻi ʻole, ʻaʻole maikaʻi nā keiki, inā ma ke kula a i ʻole ke ola ʻoihana. Ma ke kula, aia nā hōʻailona o nā māka haʻahaʻa, paʻakikī ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana i nā manaʻo o nā kumuhana, a i ʻole hiki ʻole ke komo i nā hana extracurricular.
Ma ke ola ʻoihana, ʻaʻole hiki ke hoʻokō i nā palena manawa, hana hewa pinepine, hoʻohui maikaʻi ʻole me nā lālā o ka hui, noho ma ke kūlana hoʻokahi no nā makahiki, pale i nā loli hana a i ʻole nā hana i ka hui kekahi o nā hopena o ka makua maikaʻi ʻole. .
4. Lilo Kou Keiki i ka Hoohuoi
ʻekahi pau ka haʻawina pili pololei ka hana ʻino o nā keiki i ka maikaʻi o ka mālama ʻana a i ʻole ka mālama ʻana o ko lākou mau mākua i kā lākou huhū.
ʻO ka Tantrums a i ʻole Rage Anger kahi maʻi e pili ana i nā keiki e hōʻike ana i ko lākou ʻehaʻeha ma o ka paʻakikī, ka huhū, ka uē, ka hana ʻino, a me ka hahau ʻana i nā keiki ʻē aʻe.
Ke ʻike nā keiki i ko lākou mau mākua e huhū nei i kekahi mea e pili ana iā lākou iho a i ʻole kekahi mea ʻē aʻe, ʻo ia ʻano hana like ke hele ʻokoʻa i ko lākou mau manaʻo.
ʻO nā mākua hana ʻino i kā lākou mau keiki, he hana ʻino a hoʻomāinoino hoʻi i kā lākou mau keiki, ʻo ia ka mea e hilahila ai nā mākua.
5. Ke kū'ē i ka pilikanaka
Ke paʻi a paʻi pinepine ʻoe i kāu keiki no nā kumu liʻiliʻi, hoʻomaka ʻo ia e manaʻoʻiʻo ua ʻae ʻia ka hoʻopaʻi kino e like me nā mea ʻē aʻe. No laila, i kona wā ʻelemakule, hana like ʻo ia i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. A laila, he mea liʻiliʻi ka paʻi ʻana a i ʻole ka paʻi ʻana, ʻo ka hou ʻana, ka hoʻomāinoino ʻana a me ka pepehi ʻana, lilo ia i mea maʻamau.
Nīnau pinepine ka poʻe ma ʻaneʻi inā ʻo ODD ke kumu o ka hānau makua ʻino. ʻAe, ʻo ODD (Defiant Defiant Disorder) a me OCD ka mea e hopu ai i nā keiki ma muli o ka maikaʻi ʻole o ka makua. No laila, ke hōʻike ke keiki i nā hōʻailona o ka ODD, aia i ko lākou mau mākua ke kōkua iā lākou e hoʻomaikaʻi koke a hoʻomāhuahua paha i kā lākou ʻano me ia.
mea leʻaleʻa
Hoʻohana ʻia ka makua maikaʻi ʻole ma ke ʻano he hoʻohālikelike e ka hapa nui o nā hui i kēia lā. No ka laʻana, "No ke aha i like maoli ai ka nūpepa ʻo Bad Parenting a pehea mākou e hoʻoponopono ai?" (Ashoka.org)
ʻO ka hoʻoponopono makua maikaʻi ʻole: Pehea e hoʻōla ai mai ka makua maikaʻi ʻole?
Ua ʻae ʻia ʻaʻole ʻoe he makua maikaʻi no nā kumu like ʻole, e like me ke koʻikoʻi ma ke keʻena, ʻaʻole i ka launa maikaʻi me kāu hoa, a i ʻole ʻoe i ʻike ʻole ʻo ia ʻano hana e hōʻino ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana o kāu mau keiki.
Akā, pono e loaʻa kahi hopena: ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki o ka maikaʻi. ʻO ka mea maikaʻi, ua ʻike ʻoe i ka pōʻino o kāu mau keiki a ʻo ka manawa kēia e hoʻololi iā ʻoe iho.
No laila ke paipai nei mākou i kēia mau hana e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e hānai i kāu keiki ma mua o kou manaʻo.
1. E lilo i hoa aloha no kāu keiki (Express Your Love)
He mea paʻakikī paha ka hele ʻana aku i kāu keiki i ka wā mua, no ka mea, manaʻo ʻia ʻo ia ma ke ʻano o ka hahau ʻana. Akā naʻe, e nīnau pehea kona lā ma ke kula. He aha ka mea ʻakaʻaka i ia mau hola? Ua hauʻoli ʻo ia i ka ʻaina awakea ma ke kula?
I kona hoʻomaka ʻana e haʻi i kāna moʻolelo, e hōʻike i ka manaʻo piha, e hōʻike ana i kona mau manaʻo e like me ka ʻakaʻaka mea maikaʻi ʻole a me ka hookiekie ana i na mea ino. Mea pāʻani drone UFO. He mea ʻē paha ia akā e hana ʻo ia e like me ke kilokilo a ma hope o kekahi manawa e ʻike ʻoe e launa pū ʻo ia me ʻoe.
2. ʻAʻole hoʻōho hou, ʻōlelo ʻino, a ʻaʻole hoʻi
ʻOiai paʻakikī paha iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi koke, e hoʻāʻo ʻaʻole e hoʻōho, ʻoiai inā hewa ke keiki. ʻO ka uē ʻana i ka mea kūpono ke kumu o ka makaʻu i nā keiki, a ke hoʻomau nei kēia hopohopo i ko lākou mau manaʻo no nā makahiki.
No laila, e pale i ka ʻuā ʻana a me ka ʻōlelo ʻino ʻana i kāu keiki. Akā, e hoʻomaopopo iā lākou me ka leo aloha a me ke akahai ʻaʻole kūpono kekahi mea iā lākou.
3. Kākoʻo i nā hōʻole me nā kumu
E ʻōlelo paha kāu keiki i ka ice cream ʻoiai ua loaʻa iā ia ka ʻeha ʻāʻī. Ma ʻaneʻi, ma kahi o ka ʻōlelo pololei ʻole, e haʻi aku iā ia ʻo ke kumu wale nō ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke loaʻa i ka ice cream no ka ʻeha ʻāʻī a loaʻa koke iā ia ke ola ʻo ia.
Hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻololi i nā mea āna i koi ai me nā mea pono akā nani e like me ka papa kiʻi kiʻi LED magic.
4. Hāʻawi i kāu keiki i ka hakahaka
Mai ho'āʻo e hana i nā mea a pau no kāu keiki. Hāʻawi iā ia i kahi manawa e pāʻani ai iā ia iho, me ka hoʻohana ʻana i kona noʻonoʻo ponoʻī, ʻoiai me nā poho, akā me ka nui o ke aʻo ʻana. ʻAʻole hewa ka hāʻule inā ua aʻo ʻoe i kekahi mea mai ia mea.
ʻO ke kānāwai ma ʻaneʻi, ʻaʻole ulu ka sapling ma lalo o kahi kumulāʻau. Inā makemake ʻoe e lilo kāu mau keiki i poʻe hoʻoholo ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi i ka wā e hiki mai ana, e hoʻonaʻauao iā lākou, e hoʻolohe inā pono, a e aʻo iā lākou me ke kūʻokoʻa piha. He ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia inā hana kāu keiki i kekahi ʻano hana, hana i ka hale, a i ʻole ke aʻo ʻana.
5. E hoʻohālike maikaʻi
ʻOi aku ka manaʻo o nā keiki e ko lākou mau mākua ma mua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Inā makaʻu nā mākua, huhū, a emi ʻole ka hoihoi, pēlā nō nā keiki.
No laila, ʻo nā mea maikaʻi āu e noi pinepine ai i kāu mau keiki e hana, e hana mua ʻoe iā ʻoe iho. E moe i ka manawa, e hana maikaʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, etc.
Komiki makua ino
Memes makua ino
Kahalalo!
ʻO kāu mau keiki kāu waiwai. Inā hānai maikaʻi ʻoe i kāu mau keiki, e ʻike ʻoe ua kūleʻa lākou ma nā wahi āpau o ke ola. Ma ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe, ʻaʻole e hoʻopilikia wale kāu mau manawa makua maikaʻi i ko lākou wā e hiki mai ana akā e ʻike pū kekahi i kahi pilina maikaʻi ʻole ma waena o ʻoe a me lākou.
Eia nō naʻe, inā ʻike ʻoe i kekahi o nā hōʻailona ma luna aʻe a nānā i nā ʻano ʻano ʻē i kāu mau keiki, aia ka hopena. Eia nō naʻe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaikaʻi i kou pilina me kāu mau keiki a kapa iā ʻoe iho he makuahine a makua kāne haʻaheo ma mua o ka lohi.
Eia kekahi, mai poina i ka pin /lepe puke a kipa aku i kā mākou moʻomanaʻo no ka ʻike hou aʻe akā ʻike maoli. (Vodka a me ka wai hua waina)